What Is Wrong
Hey, i got one major qns to ask to all the ladies out there!!! Do you ladies really think that you wanna get married & give birth in the future? Think before you answer!!
For my answer is NO! I used to think that i wanna get married & have a happy family kinda stuffs. But now...it juz turned me off totally!! You see, to me getting married & giving birth are such a major responsibilities. And i dont think i wanna take or have that. Getting married means that u gotta commit urself to only ONE man. If u are single BUT attached, u dont really need that, u know? And LOVE is a very serious matter, cuz when someone love u, he/she will do anything for u. It is like literally ANYTHING!! Which is terrible...juz imagine that u have a gf/bf that love u so much and going crazy over u each day without failed for the rest of his/her life, and planned to even get married and have kids with u. But u end up realized that u dont wan to get married and to have kids, how are u going to put that across to him/her?? Confused? U gotta find answer for yea own mess...
Giving birth??? For me the most i can give in is to get married and NO FURTHER! Get married, and ADOPT child. NOT giving birth!!! Cuz its a NO situation, NO bargain or anything, if my husband/bf wants this.. i will be happy to tell him to get another woman!! And leave me alone and stop bothering me about giving birth!!!
*SiGh* Recently i also felt kinda depress, stressed up and stuffs, thinking about my future and the possibility that i will be forced and be put in a situation whereby i have to do things that i am so unwilling to do. But for the sake of what?? For the sake of someone that love me?? And at this moment i dunno know what is love about. It is like what i am doing now is juz like finding a man that love me so much and that would take good care of me and our children in order to have a wonderful family???? Doesn't this sound so familiar to u?? Why do every man and lady wants to find a wonderful gf/bf?? Cuz they want someone whom willingly to bare child for them and taking care of them?????? Is it that all of us have to do that Human Cycle thingy once we are brought onto this earth??? I dont know myself, i am lost, confused and searching for my answer. Different people may have different views, many may said that "Yes, we have to do the Human Cycle thingy.", while many may say "No, it depends on individuals.". So what now??? Can my answer juz drop from the sky or may i have to accept the way life will be or would be??
-=Thinking=-
For my answer is NO! I used to think that i wanna get married & have a happy family kinda stuffs. But now...it juz turned me off totally!! You see, to me getting married & giving birth are such a major responsibilities. And i dont think i wanna take or have that. Getting married means that u gotta commit urself to only ONE man. If u are single BUT attached, u dont really need that, u know? And LOVE is a very serious matter, cuz when someone love u, he/she will do anything for u. It is like literally ANYTHING!! Which is terrible...juz imagine that u have a gf/bf that love u so much and going crazy over u each day without failed for the rest of his/her life, and planned to even get married and have kids with u. But u end up realized that u dont wan to get married and to have kids, how are u going to put that across to him/her?? Confused? U gotta find answer for yea own mess...
Giving birth??? For me the most i can give in is to get married and NO FURTHER! Get married, and ADOPT child. NOT giving birth!!! Cuz its a NO situation, NO bargain or anything, if my husband/bf wants this.. i will be happy to tell him to get another woman!! And leave me alone and stop bothering me about giving birth!!!
*SiGh* Recently i also felt kinda depress, stressed up and stuffs, thinking about my future and the possibility that i will be forced and be put in a situation whereby i have to do things that i am so unwilling to do. But for the sake of what?? For the sake of someone that love me?? And at this moment i dunno know what is love about. It is like what i am doing now is juz like finding a man that love me so much and that would take good care of me and our children in order to have a wonderful family???? Doesn't this sound so familiar to u?? Why do every man and lady wants to find a wonderful gf/bf?? Cuz they want someone whom willingly to bare child for them and taking care of them?????? Is it that all of us have to do that Human Cycle thingy once we are brought onto this earth??? I dont know myself, i am lost, confused and searching for my answer. Different people may have different views, many may said that "Yes, we have to do the Human Cycle thingy.", while many may say "No, it depends on individuals.". So what now??? Can my answer juz drop from the sky or may i have to accept the way life will be or would be??
-=Thinking=-
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